Happy Heavenly Birthday

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Today is my Grandmother's first Heavenly birthday. She passed away last March, so that makes this her first birthday since her passing from this earth into Heaven. 

I was blessed to spend her last birthday with her... at least, part of it. I took a trip up to Chicago (from San Antonio) to see her and my other grandparents last year (see that post HERE if you're interested). My last day there was on her birthday, so I got to spend most of the morning with her on what ended up being her last birthday on earth. 

My grandmother was the most beautiful person I know, both inside and out. She and I were very close, even though we lived over 1200 miles apart. 

She was my "prayer warrior." I could call her about ANYTHING and ask her to pray about it and she would. 

We'd just talk on the phone about the birds and the weather and what we were watching on TV. 

And I'll tell you... NOBODY loved my boys more than she did. 

She was the strongest person I know. When my grandpa died almost 12 years ago, I spent a week with her immediately afterward. It was the hardest thing I ever did... but I'm so glad I did. (Long story short, I was planning on spending my spring break in college with her helping take care of my very, very ill Grandpa, but he ended up passing away a few days before spring break, so I spent my spring break helping my Grandma wrap up things regarding his life) She was so sad, and I'll never forget, before his funeral, right before the family left the private viewing area in the funeral home, she grabbed his hand. That's true love. 

And now they're together again. 

I miss her so much, it hurts. Part of me is still missing without her. I have one of her Bibles, and that helps me feel closer to her. I also wear a purple ring on my finger since it was her birthstone. 

My grandma was the woman who helped teach me to cook, bake, knit, crochet, and sew. (My mom helped teach me too). She made my sister and me clothes and Halloween costumes and just about anything else we needed. 

One year, she sent me a box of her "famous" Christmas cutout sugar cookies because I wasn't able to visit very long for Christmas. She was one of the most thoughtful people I know. 

She made my wedding veil (the cat "Helped" too). 

She flew all the way to Wyoming for my wedding. She wouldn't have missed it for anything. 

I am honored to have had her as my grandmother and she is a major part of who I am today. 

Oh, I miss her. 

Happy Heavenly birthday, Grandma. I love you. 

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Comments

Holly Bird - February 4, 2019 7:35 PM
A Grandmas love stays with us forever! Sending you love and positive thoughts and prayers!
Mama Writes Reviews - February 4, 2019 7:55 PM
Thank you. Yes, her love will stay with me forever.
Abu Zaid - February 4, 2019 8:36 PM
We should care and always respect our mother or grandmother for our child. And basically in my religion we must really really care and obey her. Thank you, this article very very touch my heart.
Mama Writes Reviews - February 4, 2019 9:07 PM
I was raised to always respect our grandparents as well. They are the elders and the leaders of our family.
Megan Kerry - February 4, 2019 9:57 PM
Beautiful post! I absolutely love that second picture of her with your son. You can see how much she loved him. Thank you for sharing such a personal story.
Nina - February 4, 2019 10:13 PM
I am so sorry for your loss! Grandparents fill a spot in our lives that are not replaceable. It’s so good that you got spend so much time with her before her passing.
Emmeline - February 5, 2019 2:59 AM
Such a beautiful post! I wish I had gotten to know my grandparents better, but two of them passed away before I was born and the other two when I was very young. Your grandma sounds like she was an amazing person!
Chelle Dizon - February 5, 2019 4:19 AM
I’m so sorry to hear about your grandma. We all have our prayer warrior and mine is my bestfriend.
Debbie Carr - February 5, 2019 4:54 AM
This is the sweetest post, and the photos are lovely.
I'm glad you have so many wonderful memories with her. Likewise with my nan who has been gone for 8 years now, but it seems like yesterday she passed.
Thanks for sharing
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Geraline Batarra - February 5, 2019 6:52 AM
This is so touching.. How i miss my grandparents too. Especially grandpa. They really have a different kind of love that our parents can't give. They are extra sweet when it comes to grandchildren.
Czjai Reyes-Ocampo - February 5, 2019 7:36 AM
Happy Birthday in heaven to your dear grandmother. She is a darling. :)
Natalie L. - February 5, 2019 7:47 AM
Sending all of my love!!
Megan - February 5, 2019 8:11 AM
This is so beautiful. I still miss my grandma and dream about her often.
Rachael Eberhardt - February 5, 2019 9:49 AM
That was so sweet of hers. Grandmas are always the sweeter version of our mothers. I miss my grandparents too. So sad we can't be with them anymore.
Amy-Lynn Denham - February 5, 2019 10:23 AM
Seems like she had quite a heart and quite a spirit. It's the little things like decorating her walker that stand out to me. Even in a not-so-great circumstance, it seems she tried to make the best of it and to show off her personal flair. <3
Claire Lee - February 5, 2019 12:07 PM
Aww so cute!! She sounds like a wonderful person in and out.
Kristen Frolich - February 5, 2019 12:51 PM
What an incredibly touching post. This must have been so hard for you to write but your heart really shines through in every word. Lots of prayers for you on a difficult day.
Reese Woods - February 5, 2019 12:52 PM
Grandparents are such precious gifts. I am fortunate to still have all of my biological grandparents living. I know that our time together won't be forever, so we are trying to make more time for them now while we can. Happy heavenly birthday to your grandmother!
Cindy - February 5, 2019 1:00 PM
Sweet memories! Love is eternal. She knows you are thinking of her.
Mickal - February 5, 2019 1:11 PM
Such a beautiful post! I'm sorry for your lost. I'm happy that your grandmother was able to meet your son.
Shannan P - February 5, 2019 3:24 PM
What a sweet relationship you had with your grandmother. I am so sorry for your loss. Those firsts after losing someone are always so hard.
Erica ~ Erica Ever After - February 5, 2019 9:57 PM
I haven't heard the term heavenly birthday before... but you and I are both missing our grandmothers. It is something I really think about daily. This is such a beautiful way to remember her.
Preet - February 6, 2019 3:49 AM
It was really hard if you lose someone you love. I know how it feels like. I lost my grandmother lastyear and It was so painful celebrating her birthday knowing thay she was already in heaven.
Joseph Abimbola - February 6, 2019 4:26 AM
Oh so lovely grandma you've got. She is a wonderful woman. May God bless her soul
Corina - February 6, 2019 1:37 PM
We should care and always respect our parents and grandparents. Thank you, this article really touches my heart.
shweta koul - February 7, 2019 6:35 AM
Wish I could spend some more time with my grandma, sending prayers and love.
Angie - February 7, 2019 7:07 PM
So sorry for your loss. Happy birthday to your grandmother. She seems like she was a sweet and loving lady.
Elizabeth O - February 8, 2019 3:13 AM
I am sorry for your loss. I wish her Happy Birthday and you did a good job by sharing this beautiful post with us. You wrote very well too
Elle - February 8, 2019 5:01 AM
My sincere condolences. When you wrote, "My last day there was on her birthday, so I got to spend most of the morning with her on what ended up being her last birthday on earth," I shed a few tears because I still miss my grandmother. Thank for sharing such a transparent and intimate post with us.
Kisha - February 8, 2019 11:16 PM
This really melts my heart. I wasn't able to share such a bond with my grandmother (maternal) and my paternal grandmother always lived very far away. I'm glad you still honor her memory. Seems like she was a lovely woman.
Michael - February 18, 2019 2:33 AM
Great to hear the things she made for you and the family. Make sure to share it with your friends as well.
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